What do you think of hearing the words bachelorette party? We’re guessing a lot of drinking, a lot of money spent, and a lot of jokes at men’s expense.
Well, that was the old way of doing things. While the standard bachelorette party that was popular five or 10 years ago still exists, it’s becoming more frequently replaced by unconventional and quirky parties to celebrate a bride-to-be’s last few weeks or months of freedom.
So, yes, you can still have bachelorettes replete with strippers from A Bare Affair, but if that isn’t your vibe, you can consider alternate options.
We’re taking health breaks with – shock, horror – no alcohol involved and offering your party’s services as volunteers. Bungee jumping. Kitchen classes. You can even invite male friends if you’re feeling particularly bold. Also, if you feel like you might need some extra help, you can choose to hire a party planner such as those at southcarolinabacheloretteparty.com to help you plan your big day.
Here are six ideas for an alternative bachelorette party.
Go for an old-school sleepover
For the nostalgic, there can be nothing better than reliving your teenage days than having an old-school-style sleepover. Head to someone’s house, get everyone to slip into their pajamas, get their hands on as many girly movies as possible, and start eating through boxes and boxes of ice cream. You can even take the sleepover upmarket by booking a room in a plush hotel where you can all crash.
Take a class in the kitchen
A cooking lesson from a top chef can help everyone learn skills that can serve them well going forward for the rest of their lives. Why not spend the bachelorette party picking up valuable skills by taking on a class in the kitchen? Or how about a cocktail-making class? Not only can a cocktail server take you through how to make some of the bestselling cocktails in the world, but at the end of it, you’ll be able to get your night started early by drinking all the results of your hard labor.
Have a photoshoot
With Instagram now having over one billion users worldwide, the bachelorette party will be heavily photographed and plastered over social media. In which case, make it all about the photos. Book in for a fun and professional photo shoot or even a little risqué boudoir portrait in the Bay Area, allowing you to dress up in glamorous and elaborate costumes. Not only will it give you amazing photos to share on Instagram, but you’ll end up with an album of treasured memories to look back on for years to come.
Take on an extreme challenge
Talking about marriage and “taking the plunge” refers to saying “I do” and committing the rest of your life to one person. So, why not take the plunge on your bachelorette party by throwing yourself out of a plane or jumping off a platform with a piece of rope attached? A skydive or bungee jump might seem like an extreme way of celebrating an impending marriage, but it will give you something to discuss.
Have a health-themed bachelorette
Instead of getting insanely drunk and waking up with a terrible hangover or eating your weekly recommended calorie intake in a few hours, why not do the opposite and have a health-themed bachelorette? Go away for a weekend at one of America’s best spa and wellness resorts to meditate, take part in yoga, and refresh your body and mind. While this is a perfect idea, should any of the parties have had alcohol rehabilitation in Delray Beach, FL, in the past? It’s just what the bride-to-be needs to relax before embarking on married life.
Volunteer
Suppose you’ve got a bride known for their generosity or one who wouldn’t want to be the center of attention at a party all about her. Why not spend the bachelorette party giving back to the community by volunteering? You could spend an afternoon or morning working at an animal shelter or helping the homeless. Or, instead of gifts, everyone could donate to the bride’s favorite charity. Making a difference to those less fortunate is a great way of being thankful for the fortune the bride has found by meeting their one.
Invite the men along
Who says that a bachelorette party has to be just for the girls? If you’ve got male best friends, bring them along, too. Mixed-sex parties are becoming increasingly popular. If the bride and groom share a strong friendship circle, you could hold a joint bachelor and bachelorette party by pooling everyone together. How’s that for alternative thinking?
