I have talked about my plant mom journey these past few years off and on in my blog. I first got interested in plants a few years ago when we moved from a small apartment to an independent house. I planted trees and plants with great enthusiasm, but my inexperience showed, and most of them died a relatively quick death.
The plants that didn’t die of neglect died because of Coco’s nasty digging/urinating habit or Piglet’s penchant for uprooting plants.
So I gave up any dreams of a beautiful garden until last year – bored at home, I got into buying indoor plants online.
With both Piglet and Coco much older, it felt like I could get back into planting again. And this time, the results have also been a lot more encouraging.
Warning: Massive photo dump to follow.
What did I do different this time?
Well, I lowered my expectations quite a bit 😅😜.
Also, this time I benefited from a lot of Internet knowledge – seriously, it’s incredible the amount of knowledge out there. I have been following a ton of gardening subreddits on Reddit, and there is so much helpful and pertinent advice that it gave me the push I needed to start this trial and error plant mom journey of mine.
My Journey
First, I did a lot of reading before buying any plants. I made sure to start small with easy maintenance plants like a ZZ plant, Areca palms, and a Spider plant – all three of them are thriving beautifully.
Once I started to get a little comfortable with these, I branched out to a little more variety. I rather ambitiously bought two anthuriums – beautiful, healthy specimens and a Livistona tabletop palm, which I was assured would thrive under minimal light.
Sadly, these plants no longer look healthy, and I don’t want to share their current photos. Suffice to say; I don’t think there’s any coming back for these plants.
It was a good thing I bought the following three plants before the anthurium and Livistona failed. Otherwise, I would just not have had the courage to get these three beauties.
I have been told that all three plants can be tricky, so I feel pretty happy with how these plants are doing.
With my hopes high, I then grabbed the opportunity of a festive discount and bought a dahlia and a tulsi point. Sadly, I have reverted to form. The dahlia died within a week (to be fair, it was the week I had gone to visit my family, and it was a week of copious rain). I had hoped they would somehow survive the week. Unfortunately, no 😟.
My beautiful dahlias before my trip to Chennai Close-up of this beauty
My tulsi plant seems to have picked up some strange infection that I cannot identify despite multiple Reddit pleas for help. Finally, I have drowned it in neem oil (supposedly an excellent all-purpose pest repellant), but I am not very hopeful. I have trimmed down all the affected parts, but I think this will die a slow, agonizing death until nothing is left.
Status of my other plants
My other plants have been doing steadily well – the money plant that I grew out of a tiny leaf is thriving (so well that I am planning to propagate it shortly), and so is my peace lily (although it hasn’t been flowering). My philodendron and Rhapis palm are also pretty steady. I really should have taken pictures of them, but they are on my bookshelves inside, and I was too lazy to take them out into the sun for a pic.
What’s next in my plant journey?
I want to replace my dead Livistona, and I also have my heart set on a poinsettia – just perfect for Christmas. I want to try growing a dahlia again, but I don’t think I have the courage after my previous attempt failed so spectacularly.
Long-term, I am not very sure where I am going with this house plant thing. I started getting into them at the peak of lockdown when I grew little nuts and stir-crazy sitting at home. Now that things are beginning to open up here 🤞, I am unsure if I will have the time to take care of them. I know I will continue to maintain my current collection. But I think it’s time to put a halt to buying any more (after the poinsettia and Livistona, of course 😉).
Besides, I am running out of room to keep them at home 😒.
Hihi….Coco is so awful for doing that! Our plants have to be left as sacred as they are. Can I come pick some plants? I got some space here.
Thanks for sharing your journey as plant mom. Very inspiring one.
thank you!
Looks like you’re doing a great job. I can never grow anything so this is great to see!
I also tried anthurium and Livistona but failed. Growing plants takes a process and its important to research before buying the plants or else they will results to failure.
I really think they are not as low maintenance as people have told me.
Growing plants is one of the things Ive started since the pandemic. And I love it so far. I grow many Succulents and Bonsai Plants.
which reminds me, I haven’t included succulents in my list of plants I have killed 😆😅
Thanks for sharing your journey as a plant mom. This inspired me to start my own.
I love the look of fiddle leaf figs, but I’ve never had house plants other than cacti! My future sister in-law is obsessed with plants, and I’m sure she’d have something to say if I bought an artificial one, lol! I’d love to care for house plants, and I think they add a very fresh and organic element to a living space – one day, maybe!
fiddle leaf figs are beautiful but high-maintenance. Their leaves are huge and a dust magnet. I end up spending about 30 mins every day/other day wiping them clean.
We had a very nice Yucca and Palm plant from IKEA. They were growing so well until we got a new family member – 2 months old kitty 🐈 😅
I don’t have a green thumb at all. Everything I try to grow either dies or is killed by my cats.
Sounds like maybe you need to do some cat training as well as studying plant care. 😉
Dog, and he’s beyond training. Sigh!
I used to be like this. This year, I think the pandemic forced me to develop my patience.
I’ve been trying to grow native plants. So far, I’ve had lots of success with them.
what native plants do you grow?