As a close family member to someone special who’s getting married, it only makes sense that you want to pitch in and help with the planning and logistics. It’s possible your family member doesn’t have the budget to hire a wedding planner or simply wants your assistance with the matter.
Either way, be willing and prepared to step up and offer a helping hand with making sure the day goes off without a hitch. The following tips will give you a better idea of what you can be doing to make sure the planning process is smooth and successful, so your family member doesn’t feel so stressed out.
Conduct Research & Offer Suggestions
One tip for helping your family member plan their wedding is for you to do a lot of the legwork up front such as conducting research and offering up suggestions. For instance, recommend various wedding venues, food and entertainment options, and wedding invitation design ideas. Researching choices and prices can take a lot of time, so this will certainly help out your family member as they prepare for their wedding.
Assist with the Bachelorette Party
There’s going to be a bachelorette party that will need to be organized so this is a great area where you can step in and assist. Figure out a game plan that you know your family member will enjoy such as getting your nails done, spending time at the beach and going out for a fancy dinner. Also, consider these party gifts as a way for your drinks to stay cold while you’re out soaking up the sunshine.
Be in Charge of the To-Do List
If you truly want to help your family member out with their wedding planning project, then take over monitoring the to-do list. This way you’ll be able to confirm that no important details are forgotten about and all your tasks are completed on time. Doing so will take a lot of pressure off of the bride’s plate, and you’ll feel good knowing you’re doing her a big favor by accepting this role in the planning process. It’s a good idea to go over the checklist with her often and review what upcoming to-dos you should be focusing on and attending to so it all gets done.
Remain Calm & Offer Support
The best and most important way you can help your family member plan their wedding is to be by their side to offer moral support and keep her calm both before and on the big day. Keep in mind there will be stressful moments along the way. These are the times when you can be strong for the bride and step in and encourage her to keep going strong and remind her that it’s all going to work out okay in the end. Also, be there to participate in relaxing activities with your family member throughout the journey to help minimize any anxiety such as getting your nails done and taking a meditation or yoga class.
